Tuesday, June 5, 2018

Terri's Tuesday Tip of the Week - June 5th


I dream my painting and I paint my dream. ― Vincent van Gogh

Dreams are the touchstones of our characters. ― Henry David Thoreau

Live the Life of Your Dreams: Be brave enough to live the life of your dreams according to your vision and purpose instead of the expectations and opinions of others. ― Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart

Have you ever heard of Gigi’s Cupcakes?  Until recently, I had not; however, I think this story is inspiring and well worth the read.    

Gina “Gigi” Butler started her first company, Gigi’s Cleaning Company, at 15 because she did not want to work for anyone else.  Her real dream was to become a country singer/songwriter so she sold her cleaning business and followed her dream to Nashville, Tennessee.  After finding a few cleaning clients, she would clean during the day and at night wait tables and sing.  During this time, she worked at popular tourist night spots such as Tootsie’s and The Stage on Broadway.

At 30, she decided that she had spent enough late nights waiting tables and singing.  She decided that she would retire from the music industry.  Part of her felt like she was a failure because she had not accomplished her dream, but she knew that God healed all wounds.  After expanding her cleaning business and hiring new employees, she was content with life. 

One afternoon while cleaning, her brother, Steve, called her from New York.  He told her that he had just stood in line for 2 hours for a cupcake and he personally believed that the cupcakes she made with her mom were better than the one he was eating.  He encouraged her to start her own bakery in Nashville.  She took a “leap of faith” and decided to start the bakery. 

After many setbacks including financing issues and people not believing in her dream, she found a banker that helped her. On the day she opened the bakery, she had $33 in her checking account. Gigi’s Cupcakes now has more than 100 locations in 23 states.

Gigi’s advice for anyone interested in her story:

If I can convey just one idea to someone reading my story, it would be to believe in yourself, walk with integrity, work hard and trust in God. And maybe your life won’t turn out exactly how you were expecting or hoping it to be; but maybe, just maybe, it will be so much better than you could have ever imagined!

With God, all things are possible!

CHALLENGE:  Be encouraged to keeping pushing towards your dreams!

As we are approaching midyear, it is a great time to start preparing to conduct your midyear goal review.  If you are not tracking benchmark data for your 2018 goals, start gathering data to determine progress.





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Tuesday, May 29, 2018

Terri's Tuesday Tip of the Week - May 29th


Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal. – Henry Ford

One benefit of summer was that each day we had more light to read by. – Jeanette Walls

I was made for summer days. – Unknown

I love how summer just wraps it’s arms around you like a warm blanket. ― Kellie Elmore

Summertime will soon be upon us and it is a great time to start thinking about how we plan to continue progressing towards our goals even with the craziness and uncertainty in our lives seen in summer.  Now is a great time to create your summer daily routine.  Benjamin Franklin said:

If you fail to plan, you are planning to fail!

Previously, I have talked about how scheduled I am and how I have everything as a task on my to-do list.  For me, this is the only way I accomplish my daily tasks and there are still days I do not complete everything on my daily plan.  To prepare myself, I created my daily summer to-do list, which includes many of the same tasks that I normally do, but I also revised it because I desire to have more time to spend with friends.  When I revised my list, I contemplated the 3 M’s.

3 M’s for Creating a Summer Routine:

1.       Make it manageable.

2.       Make it reasonable.

3.       Make it fun.

Remember, this plan is all yours so create something that will be best for you. 

CHALLENGE:  Create your summer daily routine.

Tuesday, May 22, 2018

Terri's Tuesday Tip of the Week - May 22nd


 Freedom and security are precious gifts that we, as Americans, should never take for granted. We must do all we can to extend our hand in times of need to those who willingly sacrifice each day to provide that freedom and security. While we can never do enough to show gratitude to our nation's defenders, we can always do a little more. - Gary Sinise

There is nothing nobler than risking your life for your country. - Nick Lampson

America without her soldiers would be like God without His angels. – Claudia Pemberton

As Americans, we are blessed to live in a wonderful country where we have the freedom of speech, press, religion and right to peaceably assemble as is stated in the 1st Amendment of the Constitution.  Those rights are protected by the men and women of the United States Military.  If our country was not protected, we would not be able to pursue our dreams and goals.    

As we are approaching Memorial Day next week and since May is Military Appreciation Month, this is a great time to honor those men and women who protect our country and those who have lost their lives defending our country. 

The nation which forgets its defenders will be itself forgotten. - Calvin Coolidge

CHALLENGE:  Take time to thank the men and women who serve this great country AND their families because they serve also. 

Tuesday, May 15, 2018

Terri's Tuesday Tip of the Week - May 15th


You are what you do, not what you say you'll do. - C.G. Jung

Without struggles, success would be meaningless. - Peprah Boasiako

Sayings remain meaningless until they are embodied in habits. - Khalil Gibran

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony. - Mahatma Gandhi

The last lesson I have learned over the last 4 years writing Terri’s Tuesday Tip of the Week is that I have to do what I write. 

Recently, I was frustrated with what was going on in my life and had a negative mindset.  As I was evaluating why I was upset, I realized that I was not doing what I have written about in Terri’s Tuesday Tip of the Week so many time…having a positive mindset!  After getting over my frustration, I took time to think and mentally recalibrate my thoughts to implement a positive mindset for myself. 

In a different situation, I have always been a reader and have set many goals about reading books.  Through writing this blog, I learned that I am an auditory learner and I changed my goals for 2018 to include more auditory learning to include listening to books and podcasts.

You must know in your heart before anyone else does what is going to be good and then follow through. - Bill Budge



CHALLENGE:  Do what you say and be an example for others!

Tuesday, May 8, 2018

Terri's Tuesday Tip of the Week - May 8th


The great aim of education is not knowledge but action. - Herbert Spencer

Do you want to know who you are? Don't ask. Act! Action will delineate and define you. - Thomas Jefferson

What we plant in the soil of contemplation, we shall reap in the harvest of action. - Meister Eckhart

Do you like to know the “steps” of how to accomplish a task?  I do!  I like to create actions plans that include the “steps” I will accomplish to complete a task.  In some of my action plans, I have broken down my goals into smaller goals by setting daily or weekly goals to know what actions I need to take regularly to make progress.  After writing Terri’s Tuesday Tip of the Week for a couple years, I realized I was not challenging or motivating readers to actions.    

Success comes from taking the initiative and following up... persisting... eloquently expressing the depth of your love. What simple action could you take today to produce a new momentum toward success in your life? - Tony Robbins

Tony Robbins’ quote above is so true.  In mid-2016, I added the “Challenge” at the end of each blog post to encourage readers to think about what they read and then take ACTION!

In essence, if we want to direct our lives, we must take control of our consistent actions. It's not what we do once in a while that shapes our lives, but what we do consistently. - Tony Robbins


CHALLENGE:   What action will you take today towards accomplishing your 2018 goals?

Tuesday, May 1, 2018

Terri's Tuesday Tip of the Week - May 1st


Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or eighty. Anyone who keeps learning stays young. - Henry Ford  

Knowledge is power. Information is liberating. Education is the premise of progress, in every society, in every family. - Kofi Annan


Develop a passion for learning. If you do, you will never cease to grow. - Anthony J. D'Angelo

By improving yourself, the world is made better. Be not afraid of growing too slowly.  Be afraid only of standing still. – Benjamin Franklin


When I started writing Terri’s Tuesday Tip of the Week, my intent was to provide tidbits of encouragement each week.  Little did I know how I would be challenged each week to come up with new and exciting stories and ideas.  And once one is published, I start the whole process again for the next week.     

Since I love to learn, I have used this to my advantage.  As I read books and blogs and listen to podcasts to improve myself, I search for new and exciting stories and ideas that I can pass on to readers to encourage them to press toward their dreams!

Before you are a leader, success is all about growing yourself. When you become a leader, success is all about growing others. – Jack Welch



CHALLENGE:  Be a continual learner and pass the knowledge on!

Tuesday, April 24, 2018

Terri Tuesday Tip of the Week - April 24th


Never despise small beginnings, and don't belittle your own accomplishments. Remember them and use them as inspiration as you go on to the next thing. When you venture outside your comfort zone, wherever the starting point may be, it's kind of a big deal. – Chris Guillebeau

Thus out of small beginnings greater things have been produced by His hand that made all things of nothing, and gives being to all things that are; and, as one small candle may light a thousand, so the light here kindled hath shone unto many... -  William Bradford, Bradford: Of Plymouth Plantation

The best preparation for tomorrow is doing your best today. H. Jackson Brown, Jr.


Today is the publication of the 200th Terri’s Tuesday Tip of the Week, which amazes me!  As I was thinking about how this all started, I went back to July 2013.  At that time, I was attending a church in Austin, Texas and wanted to create a group for female business professionals to discuss topics that would affect their lives.  Our first meeting was a small group of ladies in October 2013.  As the months passed, I continued to hear that ladies wanted to attend, but they were busy business professionals and could not make the meetings.  I analyzed the situation and started thinking about this thing called a “blog”.  I decided I could provide weekly “tidbits” of information to help encourage people in progressing towards their dreams and that is how Terri’s Tuesday Tip of the Week was birthed.  Through this blog, a dream of one day writing a book has been birthed in me. 

From small beginnings come great things. – Proverb

Over the next couple weeks, blog posts will discuss different things I have learned over the last four years. 

CHALLENGE: Think back to a small beginning that catapulted you towards something you never dreamed of.  Be encouraged by what you have accomplished since that small beginning and continue to push towards your dreams!


Tuesday, April 17, 2018

Terri's Tuesday Tip of the Week - April 17th


Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts. - Winston Churchill

Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all. – Dale Carnegie

Remember that guy that gave up?  Neither does no one else. – Unknown

If You're Going Through Hell, Keep Going - Winston Churchill

It’s always too early to quit. – Norman Vincent Peale


Today marks 530 years (1492) since Christopher Columbus was granted support for his voyage to search for a western route to the Indies.  However, did you know that Columbus went before the Spanish monarch, Isabella I, on May 1, 1489 to propose his plan?  It took three years after he asked for the financial support before it was granted to him to start working on accomplishing his dream.  This time was probably very difficult, challenging and possibly depressing for Columbus.  Negative thoughts probably went through his mind and he questioned if his dream would ever come true.  However, he continued to push forward and changed the world.   

There will be times when life gets hard and it seems like accomplishing dreams and goals will never happen.  However, it is important to remember a quote by Winston Churchill that Columbus probably would have been able to relate to: 


Never give up on something that you can’t go a day without thinking about.



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Tuesday, April 10, 2018

Terri's Tuesday Tip of the Week - April 10th


The objective of cleaning is not just to clean, but to feel happiness living within that environment. - Marie Kondo

The most effective way to do it, is to do it. - Amelia Earhart

Can anything be sadder than work left unfinished? Yes; work never begun. - Christina Rossetti

Over the last week, I hope you created the list of areas to clean, activities to-do and items to be purchased.  As I have enjoyed my clean apartment, I created a list of areas to consider cleaning and a spring cleaning tips acronym.  Happy Cleaning!    

What did I clean out?

1.       Home/Apartment


2.       Files – Organize papers and trash/shred unnecessary documents.

3.       Email subscriptions – Determine if subscriptions are still needed and if not cancel the subscription.

4.       Technology – Review apps on phone and computer to determine if there are any that need to be deleted.

5.       Volunteering – There is a season for everything and spring is a great time to review current volunteering to determine if they are still the appropriate opportunities.     

6.       Finances – Call companies to negotiate lower rates or cancel any subscriptions that a fee is charged for and that are no longer needed. 

Tips for spring cleaning:

·       Center – Focus on the task at hand and do not allow distractions.  There are two ways to use time for spring cleaning.  First, a full day can be scheduled to clean.  Second, set a time limit every day that will be “cleaning time”, which could be 20 or 30 minutes.  A lot can be accomplished in small amounts of time. 

·       Learn - While cleaning, it is a great time to learn and grow.  Turn on an interesting podcast or an audio book.  On the other side of the matter, silence allows time to think and process.  Determine what is best for you.

·       Evaluate – Review the areas to be cleaned and list of tasks/activities to complete.  Determine if anything else needs to be added to the list and then clean. 

·       Assess – Create piles of items that are no longer needed.  Determine if the items should be thrown away or given away.  For those items to be given away, itemize and take to local charity.

·       Next Steps: 

1.       Schedule time to purchase items that are needed. 

2.       Create a plan to keep home clean.

3.       Set a date for the next in-depth cleaning.  

If you want to improve your life immediately, clean out a closet.  Often it’s what we hold onto that holds us back. – cherylrichardson.com

Challenge: Create a plan to keep your home clean. 



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Tuesday, April 3, 2018

Terri's Tuesday Tip of the Week - April 3rd


What I know for sure is that when you declutter – whether it’s on your home, your head, or your heart – it is astounding what will flow into that space that will enrich you, your life, and your family. ― Peter Walsh, Lose the Clutter, Lose the Weight: The Six-Week Total-Life Slim Down

Have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful, or believe to be beautiful. – William Morris

Spring cleaning…we all know that it is a popular occurrence for people when spring arrives, but why?   Different websites give different reasons such as the Jewish custom to clean homes before Passover or the Chinese that clean out their homes in anticipation of the new year.  However, the best answer may simply be that during the winter months fewer hours of sunlight trigger a release of melatonin in our brains, which causes sleepiness in humans.  Once the days start getting longer in the spring, more sunlight means less melatonin production and more productivity! 

Clutter decreases productivity and now is a great time to start cleaning out to help create more time for accomplishing dreams.  As someone that doubted this after I heard one of my motivational mentors talk about it, I challenged myself the last week of March to organize areas of my life to prepare for a fun, exciting and hopefully crazy summer!

My apartment is less than 900 square feet, but I did find many things to clean out.  For example, I had a pile of “stuff” that needed to be taken to the Salvation Army, so I accomplished that.  I had purchased a few items that I could not decide if I wanted to keep or return.  During this time, I returned the items I chose not to keep and placed the items I kept in their proper place.  A “pile” in your home can be a continual nuisance and this is a great time to get rid of it. 

Productivity is never an accident. It is always the result of a commitment to excellence, intelligent planning, and focused effort. Paul J. Meyer

Challenge:  Create a list of areas that need to be cleaned, list of tasks/activities that need to be accomplished and start a list of items to be purchased/returned in April.



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