Tuesday, June 20, 2017

Terri's Tuesday Tip of the Week - June 20th



How about hear the other side of the story before jumping to conclusions. – Author Unknown

It is only through the opposition of ideas that we can learn to be self-critical, to work towards intellectual humility. - Tariq Ramadan

You must never underestimate your opposition. - John Scarlett

Strong people are made by opposition like kites that go up against the wind. - Frank Harris

Last week, I attend a political event and ran into a man I met a couple months ago.  As we were talking, I remembered he liked to read and I asked him what he was currently spending his time pondering.  After he responded, he asked me what I was reading.  When I responded that I was reading a book that was different than my political views, he looked at me awkwardly and asked if I was enjoying it.  My response was that I was learning a lot and able to see what I considered the fallacies in the author’s perspective.  He said, “Know your enemies!”  This particular politician is not an enemy, but it is someone that I do not agree with.  

When this author’s first book came out, my father suggested I read it to help me understand the other side’s perspective.  That experience taught me that for me to truly understand what I believe, I must understand what the other side believes. 

Recently, Mark Batterson said he had to deconstruct his views to reconstruct them and he said he had to “walk through a process to discover why I believe what I believe”.  This process is about learning who we are, what we believe and why.  I truly believe that when we know this, we are able to disagree agreeably. 

CHALLENGE:  What views do you need to deconstruct to reconstruct to be better educated to grow and develop?

Opposition provides choices, and choices bring consequences - good or bad. - Ezra Taft Benson

Tuesday, June 13, 2017

Terri's Tuesday Tip of the Week - June 13th



Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself. ― Leo Tolstoy

They always say time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself. ― Andy Warhol, The Philosophy of Andy Warhol 

It’s only after you’ve stepped outside your comfort zone that you begin to change, grow, and transform. ― Roy T. Bennett

As most readers of this blog will know, I moved to D.C. a little over a year ago.  I am not the most interior design savvy individual and I have done most of my decorating with the assistance of my mother by sending her pictures via text message of furniture in different locations in my apartment and different color pillows on my couch to obtain her opinion.  Throughout my time here, I have added a few things such as flowers, chairs, etc.  Over Memorial Day weekend, I got a hankerin' (great Texas word!) for change.  There were a couple bare walls and an empty space that needed something to add “atmosphere” in my living room.  I stood in my living room and imagined what I could do to change things up.  

After printing and hanging a picture in the corner, buying and hanging a new mirror in my entry way and moving a table from my bedroom to my living room, I was pleased that I had created a different “atmosphere” and removed the empty spaces I was annoyed with.

I learned that a couple simple changes can make a major difference in my living room and I believe this is also true in life.

CHALLENGE:  What changes can you make in your life to change the trajectory of a difficult problem you are dealing with or to help you accomplish your dreams and goals?

Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending. ― Maria Robinson

You never change your life until you step out of your comfort zone; change begins at the end of your comfort zone. Roy T. Bennett

Tuesday, June 6, 2017

Terri's Tuesday Tip of the Week - June 6th



We know what we are but know not what we may be. – Shakespeare

Every action in our lives touches on some chord that will vibrate in eternity. – Edwin Hubbel Chapin

Climb ev’ry mountain, Ford ev’ry stream, Follow ev’ry rainbow, ‘Til you find your dream. – Sound of Music

We grow great by dreams. – Woodrow Wilson


What did you want to be when you were a kid?

This past weekend, I facilitated an event where we discussed what we wanted to be when we were five (5) years old.  We discussed which of the characteristics we are using in our current jobs or volunteer activities.  It was interesting to listen to attendee’s state what they wanted to be and see how they have incorporated some of those characteristics and traits into their lives today.

As I was pondering the topic preparing to facilitate the event, I had flashbacks to when I was a child.  I remember creating lessons plans because I wanted to be a teacher.  I had a very creative imagination and would pretend to speak to large crowds of people.  With my parent’s typewriter, I created “checks” to be a bank teller.    

How are those “flashbacks” incorporated into my life today?  In the last seventeen (17) years, I have worked in the financial industry (check creation).  During this time, I worked as a trainer at a credit union (teacher and creation of lesson plans).  Additionally, I have been speaking at events since I found a love for public speaking in college. 

It truly amazed me to remember the dreams I had when I was younger and see how I am living those out today. 

Challenge:  What did you want to be when you were 5?  To help remember your dreams of when you were younger and help find more of your true self, here are five questions that Terri Foy includes in her YouTube video called “What were you made to do?”

  1.  What were your interests as a child? 
  2. What gets you excited? 
  3. What do others say you are so good at? 
  4. What do you talk about the most? 
  5. What is God speaking to your spirit?
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The things you are passionate about are not random-they are your calling. - Fabienne Fredrickson

Be who you were created to be, and you will set the world on fire. – St. Catherine of Sierma

Be yourself. The world worships an original. - Ingrid Bergman