Tuesday, May 31, 2016

Terri's Tuesday Tip of the Week - May 31st



Whatever you do in life, surround yourself with smart people who'll argue with you. - John Wooden

We do not remember days, we remember moments. - Cesare Pavese

A year from now you will wish you had started today. - Karen Lamb

Life isn't a matter of milestones, but of moments. - Rose Kennedy

It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped. - Tony Robbins

My new life in Washington, DC/Arlington, Virginia is ready to begin and in some ways already has!

Last Tuesday afternoon, I started my 20-hour trek from Austin, Texas, traveling 1300+ miles and arrived in Arlington, Virginia on Thursday afternoon at 4:30pm.  Along the way, I made two overnight stops including seeing my family and an evening in a hotel in Crossville, Tennessee.  Thank God for family that has lived in various parts of the country! 

Being in Virginia for almost five (5) days now, I have started realizing that this move has been in the works for many years.  On Friday night, I went shopping with a friend and as we were walking through the mall that is half a mile from my apartment I realized that I had waited in this mall’s food court for another friend a couple years before.  Knowing the area has definitely helped with this major change in my life.  There is still stress and uncertainty, but it could be a lot worse!

You may be asking yourself, “How did she ever get the idea in her head to make such a drastic move?”  As I said last week, I had no intention of moving from Texas in February 2015.  However, I believe that certain people come into our lives for certain reasons or periods of time.  On March 10, 2015, I met a retired F-15 fighter pilot.  He heavily pursued me and we ended up talking for a while at the National Press Club where we met.  He asked me, “So when are you moving to DC?”  I literally laughed at him and in my sassy Texas way said, “I am a Texas lady and I do not plan on moving!”  Four hours later at dinner, I told him that I had thought about his question and thought my company would work with me if I decided to relocate to DC so I was open to the idea.  In June when I saw him again, he asked my move plan and I told him my idea.  The extraction from Texas was targeted for June 1st and I accomplished it a little earlier than I had originally envisioned!  He was a fun guy to go out with and made me laugh.  He will always be a friend and I will remember him as the one who challenged me and opened my thinking to making a major change in my life!

CHALLENGE: What memorable moments changed your life?  Are there still some actions or steps you need to complete? 

I don’t regret the things I’ve done, I regret the things I didn’t do when I had the chance. – Unknown

Tuesday, May 24, 2016

Terri's Tuesday Tip of the Week - May 24th - BIG ANNOUNCEMENT!!!



When a dream is fulfilled, it shouldn’t become a straitjacket, constricting a person’s evolution and progress. Instead, it should be a stepping-stone to the next thing…” ― Jai Pausch, Dream New Dreams: Reimagining My Life After Loss

He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life. - Muhammad Ali


What do you do when you accomplish all of your dreams in Texas?  You move to Virginia!  Today, I am officially announcing that it is 3pm in Austin, Texas and I am starting my twenty-three (23) hour drive to Arlington, Virginia/Washington, DC.  There will be a few stops along the way and I will officially arrive Thursday afternoon.  I did not make this decision lightly.  I pondered and prayed for over a year and sought wise council.  After making the decision, everything has literally fallen in to place. 
Everyone who knows me has not been surprised by this decision.  Going to Washington, DC opens up many new opportunities and provides great growth potential.  I will forever be grateful for the opportunities I have had in Texas because they have definitely been the stepping-stones that Jai Pausch was referring to in his quote above. 
Ten (10) years ago when I moved back to Texas, this would never have crossed my mind as a possibility.  Actually, this would not have been an option in February 2015, but various things have happened that have helped me grow and develop even stronger as an individual to take this courageous risk for the next step in my life. 
In the coming weeks, I will talk about the events, people, etc. that helped challenge me and make this decision.  I have learned that the trials, tribulations, struggles and events that I have gone through have prepared me for this step and to help influence others. 
I am truly excited about this new adventure.  I hope you continue to read the blog as I will keep everyone updated about what I learn along the way.