Nothing is impossible for those who act after wise counsel and careful thought. - Thiruvalluvar
A fool despises good counsel, but a wise man takes it to heart.
- Confucius
The 2nd lesson the
author learned is to have an advisor or seek wise counsel.
Knowing she would have to make a
quick decision, the author reached out to a friend that does interior
designing. Through modern technology, we
worked on 3D virtual interior designing with a computer system, did facetime so
the author could show the house to her interior designer, took pictures, read
reviews of new product ideas, etc. Through
this process, the author was researching all possibilities just like President
Grant did each night when he had to make hard decisions that affected the
country.
There are two options for a
personal advisor. As the author did, she reached out to a friend that has
experience in interior design to help her select the best options available in
a short amount of time. The second
option is used if the reader does not have time or wants to keep the decision
to themselves. Craig Groeschel recommends
becoming “Your Own Personal Advisor”.
What does he mean? He suggested to pretend the reader is advising an
individual on the decision trying to be made. The reader emotionally removes
themselves from the decision and the reader can analyze the situation to make a
wise decision.
Through this experience, the
author confirmed that her decision-making style is as “The Researcher”. To learn more about the different
decision-making styles, listen to Craig Groeschel’s YouTube video titled
Discover Your Decision-Making Style.
ACTION: For the decision you placed on your calendar last week, seek wise
counsel either through a source or become your own personal advisor to assist
in making the decision.
Resource
·
Discover Your Decision-Making Style -https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VSjMsY0kv9A&t=748s
·
https://www.realtimeperformance.com/ulysses-s-grant-12-leadership-lessons/
·
Email from Keith Craft dated July 9, 2023 titled “The art of
decision making”.
·
https://www.entrepreneur.com/leadership/how-did-ulysses-s-grant-make-life-and-death-decisions/331198
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