Tuesday, May 25, 2021

Terri's Tuesday Tip of the Week - May 25th

He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how. - Friedrich Nietzsche

 

Until thought is linked with purpose there is no intelligent accomplishment. - James Allen

 

Over the last several weeks, Terri’s Tuesday Tip of the Week has talked about various aspects of mental toughness.  As this series comes to an end, there is one aspect of mental toughness that is the most important in the author’s mind.  PURPOSE!

 

We all go through hard times.  Times of wanting to give up like the Navy SEALs during Hell Week.  Or times of complete disarray at work or in our personal lives of not understanding why we are going through what we are going through.  Times when we wish life was different and that our dreams would just come to fruition already.  During those times, it is important to reflect one’s purpose in life.  

 

In The grit factor: courage, resilience, & leadership in the most male-dominated organization in the world, Shannon Huffman Polson talked about how a General knowing her purpose changed part the Army (p. 56-57):

 

Knowing her own core purpose allowed her to focus the organization she led on its core purpose: getting the warfighters what they needed to do their work.

 

For General Dunwoody, the intersection of purpose (making a difference) and story (she would always will be a soldier at heart) put her in the ideal position to push through challenges, navigate her way through uncharted and seemingly impossible bureaucracy, and change the focus of the entire Army logistics organization.  Whatever the nature of your challenge, uncovering your core purpose prepares your foundation for grit.

 

Many years ago, the author wrote her personal purpose statement.  During the tough times at work, the pandemic and in her personal life, the author reflects on her purpose statement to remind her of why she continues to be resilient and continues on the journey to accomplish her dreams. 

 

ACTION:  Next Monday, take time to honor the men and women that gave the ultimate sacrifice for our country on Memorial Day.

 

To learn more about personal purpose statements, review Terri’s Tuesday Tip of the Week from December 9, 2015 and December 19 and 26 in 2017 to learn more about how the author’s purpose statement has impacted her life.  Additionally, Lynette Lewis was where the author first learned about a personal purpose statement.  Her website has great resources: https://www.lynettelewis.com/.

 

 

Resources

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